Safety Tips

Online Safety

Protect Your Personal Information

• Never share your full name, address, or workplace in your profile or early messages
• Don't share financial information or send money to anyone you meet on LuvsFinder
• Avoid sharing your phone number until you're comfortable
• Use the in-app messaging feature rather than moving to other platforms too quickly
• Be cautious about sharing social media profiles that reveal personal details

Recognize Red Flags

• Too Good to Be True: Overly flattering messages or moving too fast
• Money Requests: Anyone asking for money, gift cards, or financial help
• Vague Profiles: Limited information, stolen photos, or inconsistent stories
• Avoiding Video Calls: Refusing to video chat or meet in person
• Off-Platform Communication: Pushing to move to email, text, or other apps immediately
• Suspicious Links: Sending links to websites or asking you to download files

Report and Block

If someone makes you uncomfortable or violates our guidelines:

• Use the Block feature to prevent further contact
• Report suspicious behavior to our team
• We review all reports and take appropriate action
• Trust your instincts - if something feels wrong, it probably is

Meeting in Person

Take Your Time

• Get to know someone through messages before meeting
• Consider a video call before an in-person meeting
• Don't feel pressured to meet before you're ready
• Trust your gut - if you're not comfortable, don't meet

First Date Safety

• Public Place: Always meet in a busy, public location (coffee shop, restaurant, park)
• Tell Someone: Inform a friend or family member where you're going, who you're meeting, and when you expect to be back
• Your Own Transportation: Drive yourself or arrange your own ride so you can leave when you want
• Stay Sober: Keep a clear head on first dates - limit alcohol consumption
• Keep Your Phone Charged: Ensure your phone is fully charged and accessible
• Trust Your Instincts: If something feels off, end the date and leave

During the Date

• Keep your drink in sight at all times
• Don't leave belongings unattended
• Be aware of your surroundings
• Don't feel obligated to go to a second location
• It's okay to end the date early if you're uncomfortable

Sexual Health and Consent

• Consent is Essential: All parties must enthusiastically consent to any sexual activity
• Communicate Clearly: Discuss boundaries and expectations openly
• Practice Safe Sex: Use protection to prevent STIs and unwanted pregnancy
• Get Tested: Regular STI testing is important for sexually active individuals
• No Means No: Respect boundaries immediately when someone says no or seems uncomfortable

Avoiding Scams

Common Dating Scams

• Romance Scams: Building emotional connection then asking for money for emergencies
• Catfishing: Using fake photos and identities to deceive others
• Investment Scams: Offering "can't miss" investment opportunities
• Phishing: Sending links to steal login credentials or personal information

Protect Yourself

• Never send money to someone you haven't met in person
• Do a reverse image search on profile photos to check for stolen images
• Be skeptical of sob stories or urgent requests for help
• Don't click on suspicious links or download files from matches
• Report suspicious profiles immediately

For Friends and Family

If someone you care about is using dating apps:

• Be supportive and non-judgmental
• Encourage them to follow safety guidelines
• Offer to be their emergency contact for first dates
• Help them recognize red flags or concerning behavior
• Be available if they need to talk about their experiences

Resources and Support

Emergency Services

If you're in immediate danger, call emergency services (911 in the US).

Support Organizations

• National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233
• RAINN Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673
• National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988
• Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741

Report to LuvsFinder

For issues specific to LuvsFinder, contact us at: safety@luvsfinder.com